Wisdom, Warmth and wonderment

Each woman brings her own uniqueness to the circle. Each has a gift, a talent that is her trademark. Welcoming in diversity and humility. To walk on your journey as you walk through life will bring you closer to your goal and more joy in your day. You are a midwife who is in creation. A midwife under construction. You are important in your journey. Always be willing to learn and always keep breathing.

Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Two Babies and Blisfully Beautiful

This week a set of twins were born at home in the water. This mother was full of trust in her body and her babies. The team of midwives, working together to one , stay out of her way and the other to watch over the well being of mom and babies. A beautiful labor, a sweet and simple birth with power and conviction. They were scooped up, loved abundantly by mom, dad and family, Mom took to two like she had done this many times before. This picture is of her and her babies, next to each other at 30 hours old. They were calm and gentle babies who had marinated in a loving mothers hormones.

Women share their excitement and their well being with their babies both during pregnancy, birth and breast feeding. When a mother believes in this process then her babies do to. Her birth is smooth and straight forward. And her mothering is too. Twins can be smooth and straight forward in the same way that a singleton can. Yes there is important issues to watch over during the prenatal time , birth and post partum. When the babies are growing well, moms BP is good, she births after 37 weeks, and the presenting baby is head down, each baby has it's own amnion, then the rest is usually good. There must be trust on the mothers and the midwives part.  It is wise for a midwife to have at least one other midwife and experience assistant there if not two. You have three people to watch over so you need three skilled care providers, just in case each needs attention. You need two complete set ups for babies and that includes two O2 tanks and resusitation set ups and everyone is certified in NRP.  It is best if one of the midwives has already done a breech birth and that all have reviewed breech.

Twins and breeches are a variation of normal. So long as your know what is normal for each and what the condraindications are for each. The one of importance is skill level of the midwife. The other is the babies as mentioned above.

Remember that two babies bring a large site of placenta so bleeding is an important element to watch. After birth cramps are much worse for most multips for good reason. Then there is the work of breast feeding two and the demands that time is on a mother. If she has had babies before especially at home, things will go well. It is important to watch their weight and help mom to be aware that often one baby may be more of an aggressive asker and the other may not. She will learn to know her babies and know what their temperment is. Keeping track of pees and poops helps. The other help is someone to take care of the mother. To be sure she eats and drinks and her time demands may challenger her to be able to.

So when that opportunity comes to you as a student or as a midwife. Follow with another midwife who has gone before you. Let your community know you want to take on a set of twins and would they support you and follow with you. That way you have all the insight of your community to help you. After you have done a handful you will get more familiar with it.

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